FRUST-ness

The Term Frust was 1st coined in IIT,Institute of Infinite Tensions, from the English word Frustrated. Since early days when a guy used to get frustrated becoz of Profs. making them study(mugga) or becoz of Bandi or any other Issues, the term "FRUST" started getting used.

Synonyms Being:
pHroooosT ,
Paak Jana,
Fraastu ,
Frusted ,
Jhaand Hona ,
Dimag ka Dahi/Lassi ho Jaana.


Question: So today, after so many decades of ppl getting frust, Why The Hell in this World am I writing about IT ???

Answer: In the term "FRUST" lies greatness beyond all knowledge. Infact saying it the other way around Its The means to get ENLIGHTENED, to achieve Moksa.

Question: How, Why, When, Where ?

Answer: Since we are talking about this glorious term FRUST, it can't be explained just by a few answers(how to-s). Its a path of self realization to the TRUTH of this WORLD. So I am going to talk about a discussion with one of my very very close friend "Niggu Vimal"

I have been suffering from This Frust-ness since last couple of months. So yesterday I started talking to nIggu

==== Chat ====
Me: yaar kuch bhi karne ka dil nahi karta hai
pahele wo jo compu compu karte tha ..aaj kal wo bhi nahi ..
Niggu: kya hua >:D<
haaan
Me: sirf compu compu ka dil karta tha .. ab to wo bhi nahi karne ko dil karta hai
Niggu: niggu >:D<
Me: infact tv movie yaa fir kuch bhi karne ka dil nahi karta hai
>:D<
infact ab to sone tak kaa dil nahi karta .. leta rahetaa hoon but neend to kabhi kabhi hi aati hai
Niggu: kya hua
Me: kaa kare bolo to ..
Niggu: ee batao
Me: pata nahi kaa hua
sab to theek thaak hi laag raha hai
man uubh saa gaya hai
Niggu: naah
sahi sahi batao
ka hua hai
Me: pata nahi dost
humko khud pata nahi
ab tumse kya chupana :P
Niggu: :D
pata hai ka hai panga tumri life mein
Me: batao
Niggu: sach sach bataun
Me: sala humko to bujha hi nahi raha
haan ek dum ..
plzz debug kar do
Niggu: bura nahi manoge na
Me: nahi naa
bilkul nahi ..
Niggu: niggu tumko pata nahi
lekin college ke dino se jo humko life mein ache bande lagte the
usme se ek tum the
vaisan vala acha nahi :P
Me: :P
Niggu: ache insaano vala acha
Me: hehehe
Niggu: aur tum sabon mein ek cheez common tha
ye ki sale bahut jyada modest the
is haad tak ki talent hote hue bhi accept nahi karte the
Me: hmmm ..
bhaaiwaa .. kucho palle nahi pad raha hai
Niggu: bolne do
Me: ok
Niggu: aur sabko ye lagta tha ki bheed ka part banke hi tumko recogniztion mil sakti hai
i mean log tumko accept karenge
bhaiwa hum kabhi kabhi sahi word use nahi kar paunga to bhool chuk maaf kar dena
Me: :P
jaroor
Niggu: isliye u guys all tried to be like them
aur yahi cheez tum logon ko har jagah rokti hai
and sab jagah frust karti hai
Goplu ka bhi vahi haal hai
tera bhi vahi haal hai
ek do aur hain unka bhi vahi haal hai
isliye sab life se frust hain
isliye tum log hamesha vaise hi act karte the jo bheed mein acceptable tha
but u guys are best in the way u r
not the way others expect u to be
isliye kabhi tumlogon na apne mann ki bolte ho and na karte ho
and this is one of the main reason jiske karan log teri log tumlog ka fayada uthate hain
and tumlog hamesha frust rahte ho
sorry be
Me: hmmm
Niggu: me bahut baar tere ko and Goplu ko ye baat bolne ka socha
lekin bol nahi paya
Me: sorry kahe
Niggu: i like u guys the way u r
Me: dhurr dhurr
abe jaante ho ..ab aisa bologe to sala hum job chor ke duniya bhraaman ke liye nikal jaaunga

Niggu: there a lot of things in u guys which are rare to find in avergae human beings
and to top it up u guys are modest to the extent that it hampers ur progress
Me: bhaaiwa solution batao naa ...
Niggu: bhaiwa solution ander se aana chahiye
Me: theory bahut fadu hai ..
Niggu: jaise ho vaise raho
kisi ke liye mat jeao
apne liye jeao
ache ek baat bolun manoge
?
Me: bolo bolo
Niggu: nahi pahle ye batao
tum selfish ho
Me: tumhra baat to humesha maante hai
Niggu: khud ko gali dene ke liye mat bolna
soch ke bolo
jo tumhara selfish ka definition hai uske hisab se bolna
Me: haan hoon bahut selfish hoon
Niggu: aur kya sochte ho
duniya selfish hai
?
i mean dusre log
jo tumko ache lagte hain
Me: nahi yaar
hum kuch bhi sochte hi nahi hai
Niggu: duniya mein sab selfish hain
haan
tell me
Me: hum khud ko bhi selfish nahi sochte
Niggu: and sachai ye hai ki sab selfish hai
Me: actually hum frust ho gaye hai
pata nahi kahe
Niggu: nah
tum frust nahi ho
tum bahut happy insaan ho
tumne sale vo kiya hai jo tum karna chahte the
and u r one of the best in ur field
aur haan
thoda frust sab hai
jis din content ho jaoge
us din progress ruk jauegi
Me: :O
Niggu: jayegi*
==== End of Chat ====

I asked him when is this path of pain going to END. What he told came to me as a BIG SHOCK!

Frust-ness, an essential element for Progress ??? Without it our progress stops. These questions set my logic spinning...
Was it true??? Then I suddenly remembered that Even the goplu who was mentioned here told the same.
I guess two people can't be wrong at the same time. The probability, now is very less for all three of us or more to be wrong.


So this is when I realized that only when we WALK THROUGH THIS PATH OF FRUST-ness ONLY THEN CAN WE REALIZE WHAT WE REALLY WANT.

So the thing is When we walk through this path we tend to lose interest in everything and often get desperate. This desperateness is the key. We either do something with that desperateness and go ahead or we tend to be passive and do nothing. Key can Unlock the Lock but its You who have to use the KEY and open it.

BUT please note There is this PATH of FRUST-ness which leads to your GOALS, but whether You decide to walk through it till the End or Stop In Between and be there for ever IS UP TO YOU..

So Let Me Walk Hand in Hand Through this Path with You.